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	<title>Garden Ministries</title>
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		<title>To Repair a Relationship We Must Risk Communicating Again</title>
		<link>http://gardenministries.org/2010/03/04/repairing-a-relationship-requires-the-risk-communicating-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 02:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Janet Weaver Smith, March 4, 2010
When I stop communicating with God, my relationship with him stops. The same is true with people. When communication between people stops, so does their relationship. God never cuts us off, so if the relationship needs repair, the burden is on me to reopen the lines of communication with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Janet Weaver Smith, March 4, 2010</p>
<p>When I stop communicating with God, my relationship with him stops. The same is true with people. When communication between people stops, so does their relationship. God never cuts us off, so if the relationship needs repair, the burden is on me to reopen the lines of communication with God. I simply ask him to restore in me the joy of loving him. The process of repairing a broken relationship between people however, means that both sides will have to risk communicating again. Obviously, the relationship will not be repaired if only one side is willing to risk communication and the other side remains closed, negatively biased, and unwilling to communicate. For the purposes of this article, we will assume that both sides of a broken relationship have purposed in their hearts to risk communicating again with the hope and intent of repairing the relationship. </p>
<p><strong>Change Perspective</strong><br />
Perspective is the key essential ingredient in effective communication. Perspective defined is, &#8220;a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something.&#8221;  I can ask myself, &#8220;how do I want to be regarded in this relationship? Do I want to be viewed by what the other person perceives as wrong with me or do I want them to view me as Jesus sees and loves me?&#8221; Matthew 7:12 says, &#8220;so in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.&#8221; If I hope the person(s) on the other side of this broken relationship will change their perspective of me, I must be willing to change my perspective of them. And the only way I can change my perspective of someone is if I can see them differently than I have seen them in the past. </p>
<p><strong>Ask to See as Jesus Sees</strong><br />
Jesus sees past the temporary, imperfect, work-in-progress me and relates to me as his eternal family member whom he purchased at great price with his own shed blood on the cross. I Samuel 16:7 says, &#8220;The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.&#8221; And Jesus asks me to look at others as he does. If we really want to see as Jesus sees, he will first show us how much he loves us. The revelation of God&#8217;s love for us becomes authenticated when we turn and love others. We turn and love others by letting go of our wounded, opinionated, self-centered and competitive perspective of others and give them the same honor that Jesus gives them. This fresh perspective produces within us a square one, fresh-start &#8220;attitude toward and way of regarding&#8221; others. </p>
<p>We will literally stop relating to people based on our bent and wounded perspective and start relating to them through what we perceive as good and beautiful in them. As we honor the Spirit of Prophecy within us, which is the testimony of Jesus, we will be empowered to give greater honor to God and greater honor to people. How well we know God&#8217;s love for us will be evidenced in the overflow of love and honor we are able to give others—even the undeserving. We will naturally extend the truth of God&#8217;s kindness to people instead of competing with them through withdrawal, rejection, malice, and slander. We will bless others instead of cursing and criticizing them. By the Spirit of God&#8217;s love in us, we will literally see the goodness of Jesus in people and his lovesick view of their heart—even when we perceive that they are buried under lies and unbelief in their struggle to know God&#8217;s love for themselves.<br />
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Changing our Perspective Builds TRUST</strong><br />
By basing our communication exclusively upon the truth of how Jesus sees us, we will, in union with the love of God, speak the language of his love. Luke 6:45 says, &#8220;The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.&#8221; If we insist on viewing each other through the unifying Spirit of Truth, saturated in God&#8217;s affirming love, our negative perspective of others WILL CHANGE and become like Jesus&#8217;. Because we believe the good of God in others and the good of God in ourselves, we will by nature, speak the language of Love. And this love is the foundation upon which TRUST is rebuilt. When trust has been restored to a relationship, the relationship has been repaired and the risk taken to communicate again was well worth it.</p>
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		<title>Worth it All</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 17:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The price I pay to lay ahold of the price that Jesus paid for me, is the price I owe. And His grace is always enough for the price I am called to pay.&#8221; - Janet Weaver Smith

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The price I pay to lay ahold of the price that Jesus paid for me, is the price I owe. And His grace is always enough for the price I am called to pay.&#8221; - Janet Weaver Smith
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		<title>Cry Out for the Fire of God&#8217;s Love and for FREEDOM - Minneapolis - St. Paul - Twin Cities</title>
		<link>http://gardenministries.org/2010/01/07/cry-out-for-the-outpouring-of-gods-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 16:25:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Word received by Janet Weaver Smith on 1-6-2010 regarding the coming Revival in Minneapolis and St. Paul, Minnesota
The Word
&#8220;Just as the scales of justice have tipped in favor of the saints—to release the captives and to give strength to the weary—so has My word gone forth and will not return void. The word is: FREEDOM.&#8221; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Word received by Janet Weaver Smith on 1-6-2010 regarding the coming Revival in Minneapolis and St. Paul, Minnesota</p>
<p><strong>The Word</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Just as the scales of justice have tipped in favor of the saints—to release the captives and to give strength to the weary—so has My word gone forth and will not return void. The word is: FREEDOM.&#8221;<code></code> </p>
<p><strong>What this FREEDOM Looks Like</strong></p>
<p>All-mighty people consumed with and consumed by Almighty God, living out their faith and love with unprecedented passion.</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s Different this Time Around?</strong></p>
<p>The difference between this move of God and past &#8220;Reckonings&#8221; is that this move is both founded in and <em>grounded by</em> the Love of God. The Love of God is what makes it unshakeable.</p>
<p><strong>What is Our Part in Bringing this Move of God About?</strong></p>
<p>Intercessors (Note: everyone is called to intercession): Cry out for a revelation of the Love of God. Do not relent until the heavens are torn open—ripped by the bursting out and the pouring down of heaven&#8217;s great Love. The GREAT I AM loves with an energy of passion and fire that is meant to utterly consume us. </p>
<p><strong>What are the Signs and the Hallmark of this Outpoured Love?</strong></p>
<p>Possessed by God, we are wholly and completely ALIVE. Alive to Love and good works. This is the good pleasure of the Savior—the work of His unending supply of Grace. And we know what &#8220;good works&#8221; are because we do them by tangibly loving others as God loves us. So let the Love of God come and consume us, head-to-toe, forever.</p>
<p><strong>How Do We Connect to this Cry on an Everyday Basis?</strong></p>
<p>Our Faith is the substance of what we are hoping for. And we are hoping for the Lord Jesus&#8217; outpoured Great and Fiery Love. Everyday we cry out in faith, with the hope that the heavens will tear open and the fire of His intense love for us will pour out of heaven like a river and consume us—making us wholly alive unto Him and unto good works in the earth. </p>
<p>To quote an excerpt from our article <em>Love and Fellowship – The Wineskin of the Holy Spirit</em>: &#8220;In yielding to God during this last season of Divine preparation, God is also fulfilling His promise to give His Son Jesus, a pure and spotless Bride (us), cleansing us with the precious water of His fulfilled Word. Past revivals haven&#8217;t transitioned into a long-term, dwelling-place for God because our spiritual character was not first deeply invested in the Agape love of God (loving God and others at great cost to ourselves and not taking offense with God&#8217;s dealings with us). Without a deeply invested love for God-and-for-people anchoring our hearts, the old, dry wineskin of broken and wounded relationships can&#8217;t hold the continuance of God&#8217;s presence. The Spirit of God is attracted to the presence of His Love in and through us.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>By Our Faith We believe: </strong></p>
<p>That God wants to and WILL pour out His fiery, passionate Love in such a way that we—being utterly possessed by it—are completely undone.</p>
<p>That all the years of enduring, of pressing in, and hungering after God, always left wanting, will finally be satisfied—once in the &#8220;now&#8221; and also—throughout eternity.</p>
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		<title>Love and Fellowship - The Wineskin Filled With the Fullness of the Holy Spirit</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 21:33:38 +0000</pubDate>
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On November 24, 2009, while dreaming, George was shown that when God pours Himself out to us, unlike past experiences, it will be with the fullness of the gifts of the Holy Spirit (I Cor. 12) AND the fullness of the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:22). And when [...]]]></description>
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<p>On November 24, 2009, while dreaming, George was shown that when God pours Himself out to us, unlike past experiences, it will be with the fullness of the gifts of the Holy Spirit (I Cor. 12) AND the fullness of the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:22). And when we, being filled with such fullness, say, &#8220;Come Holy Spirit!&#8221; He will actually COME—in FULLNESS.</p>
<p>The &#8220;fullness&#8221; referred to in George&#8217;s dream experience has not yet happened. Up to now, we have only seen partial fillings, which have been called Revivals, Refreshings, Visitations, Awakenings, Outpourings, etc. The Move of God that is coming &#8220;with fullness&#8221; is the answer to the prayer of Jesus found in John 17, &#8220;that they would be one as We (the Godhead) are One.&#8221; As God the Father answers His Son&#8217;s prayer &#8220;to be one as They are One,&#8221; He is creating an environment into which He will come and stay. God will literally DWELL with His people in the earth in His fullness. It is what Haggai 2:9 promises. &#8220;&#8216;The glory of this present house will be greater than the glory of the former house,&#8217; says the LORD Almighty. &#8216;And in this place I will grant peace,&#8217; declares the LORD Almighty.&#8221; The peace of God will be needed in supernatural measure to maintain balance between heaven and earth while we house the very presence of Almighty God—both individually and corporately.</p>
<p>The wineskin is our extravagant love relationship with Jesus expressed in and through our love relationships with others. Because God doesn&#8217;t dwell with darkness and can&#8217;t change who He is to be more like us and still be God, He changes us to be more like Him. Thus, God is relentlessly preparing extravagant lovers of Jesus to be the wineskin that holds the very presence of God in His fullness. The fire of God&#8217;s love for us is forging deep humility and persevering character that transcends even good intentions. It is a faithful love that cries out, &#8220;God is GOOD&#8221; and &#8220;Though You slay me, I will trust you!&#8221; (Job 13:15).</p>
<p>How do we know if God is getting what He is after in us during these intense times? Here are the character traits of loving devotion: We have not quit when our faith is tested to extremes and we refuse to take offense with the severity of God&#8217;s preparation. We sink into patient resignation to the Lordship of Jesus. We open our hearts and allow the Divine Heart Surgeon to plunge His sword of truth into our core where we feel the most vulnerable. We have asked Him to extract from us all that is not in union with Him. We have cried out, &#8220;Don&#8217;t relent until you have it all. My heart is Yours!&#8221; And so, within the anesthetic comfort of His divine and imparted grace, God has relentlessly culled from our hearts Fear, Anger, Pride, and Self-Reliance and sewn and sealed us up in His extravagant love for His Son Jesus. And best of all, we are seeing the fruits of the Holy Spirit&#8217;s love, peace, patience, long-suffering, goodness, kindness increase within us. This is the evidence of transformation. We want what God wants more than what we want and we have learned the difference between the two.</p>
<p>In yielding to God during this last season of Divine preparation, God is also fulfilling His promise to give His Son Jesus, a pure and spotless Bride (us), cleansing us with the precious water of His fulfilled Word. Past revivals haven&#8217;t transitioned into a long-term, dwelling-place for God because our spiritual character was not first deeply invested in the Agape love of God (loving God and others at great cost to ourselves and not taking offense with God&#8217;s dealings with us). Without a deeply invested love for God-and-for-people anchoring our hearts, the old, dry wineskin of broken and wounded relationships can&#8217;t hold the continuance of God&#8217;s presence. The Spirit of God is attracted to the presence of His Love in and through us.</p>
<p>On Sunday, November 29, 2009, George spoke at Garden Ministries House Church about the 4 characteristics of progression of preparation we are in:</p>
<p>1.) Agape Love (Gr) means &#8220;sacrificially loving and preferring others to ourselves.&#8221; (Matt. 22:37-40)<br />
2.) Koinonia Fellowship (Gr) means &#8220;sharing in common, communion.&#8221; (Acts 2:42)<br />
3.) Charismata Attraction (Gr) means &#8220;things given to us from the Spirit by grace that cannot be earned or bought.&#8221; (Zech. 4:6)<br />
4.) Dynamis Power (Gr) means &#8220;dynamite power of God through signs and wonders.&#8221; (Acts 2:43)</p>
<p>The progression is this: Agape Love is required to sustain Koinonia Fellowship. This Fellowship of the body of Jesus Christ leads to the Charismata of God—the attractiveness of the Holy Spirit in us. God is attracted to His Charismata presence in us because it is born of His love in us and expressed through us. The Charismata of God leads us to the Dynamis of the Holy Spirit and when Dynamis occurs, miraculous Signs and Wonders occur. Many Moves, Visitations, Revivals, etc. have experienced the Charismata and the Dynamis of God, but because the wineskin of relationships did not have a deep enough foundation of Agape love and Koinonia Fellowship cultivated as Acts 2:42 and John 17 call for (i.e., heart-knit relationships of loving interdependence and becoming one as Jesus, the Holy Spirit, and the Father are One), the wineskin of relationships couldn&#8217;t hold the increase of God and it blew up.</p>
<p>God&#8217;s presence is always growing and increasing; it never &#8220;tops out&#8221; or stagnates. Thus, when the increase of God&#8217;s presence comes into a wineskin that is old and dry, it blows up. A wineskin that is deeply founded in the Agape Love of God and exercises such love through Koinonia Fellowship is supple and will organically stretch to accommodate the increase. This wineskin of Holy Agape Love and Fellowship is the loving environment that attracts the Holy Spirit and into which, He will come and fully pour Himself. And this wineskin of deep loving relationships will continually release its fullness to others and thus, remain intact. To this end were we destined—to be Glory Carriers of Almighty God in the earth—continually being poured into and continually pouring ourselves out in the sacrificial, Agape Love of God.</p>
<p>© 2009 Garden Ministries – http://www.gardenministries.org
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		<title>The Upcoming Move of God that Reveals the Father</title>
		<link>http://gardenministries.org/2009/07/20/the-upcoming-move-of-god-that-reveals-the-father/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 03:14:39 +0000</pubDate>
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© 2009 http://www.gardenministries.org
The purpose of the Jesus movement of the 70&#8217;s and the Holy Spirit/Charismatic movement of the 80&#8217;s was to prepare and lay the groundwork for the upcoming move of God revealing the Father.
This outpoured revelation of our Father God will do two things:
1. Confront. Many traditionally held perceptions of the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By George Weaver Smith<br />
© 2009 http://www.gardenministries.org</p>
<p>The purpose of the Jesus movement of the 70&#8217;s and the Holy Spirit/Charismatic movement of the 80&#8217;s was to prepare and lay the groundwork for the upcoming move of God revealing the Father.</p>
<p><strong>This outpoured revelation of our Father God will do two things:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Confront.</strong> Many traditionally held perceptions of the Father will be confronted. Only the humble in heart will perceive and accept it.</p>
<p><strong>2. Heal and restore. </strong>The Father will reveal his deep and powerful love and will fill the holes in our hearts. When the Father fills these holes with his powerful love, our fears and insecurities will fall away. The Father himself will completely heal broken hearts. People will experience wholeness like they never imagined possible.</p>
<p>Spiritual Fathers (not just men, but both men and women who have matured in their Heavenly Father&#8217;s nature) will soon emerge, carrying this message and the revelation of the Father to the broken-hearted. As Isaiah 61 says, they will &#8220;bind up the broken-hearted and proclaim liberty to captives and freedom to prisoners.&#8221;</p>
<p>Not only will broken hearts be healed, sicknesses and diseases caused by suffering from depression and a broken heart, will also disappear.
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		<title>We Are What We Believe</title>
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We believe what we WANT to believe so that we can DO what we WANT to DO.
In order to keep doing what we&#8217;re doing everyday, we have to believe in what we&#8217;re doing and believe in who we are as we are doing it.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By Janet Weaver Smith<br />
© 2009 http://www.gardenministries.org</p>
<p><strong>We believe what we WANT to believe so that we can DO what we WANT to DO.</strong></p>
<p>In order to keep doing what we&#8217;re doing everyday, we have to believe in what we&#8217;re doing and believe in who we are as we are doing it.</p>
<p>If we believe that we are helpless to change our addiction to emotional pain, anger, and unforgiving bitterness toward those who have wronged us, then we will do what those powers compel us to do every day and justify our actions because we BELIEVE we are helpless to change them. If we will not forgive AND FORGET (hold no record of wrong in our heart-felt thoughts), and if we are not open to repairing a broken relationship, then we are choosing to stay in our emotional pain, anger, and unforgiving bitterness. We may think that we are helpless, but in fact, we are choosing to be helpless.</p>
<p>If we believe that we are sons and daughters of the Most High God and heirs to the kingdom of heaven through Jesus Christ our Lord, then we will act in accordance with that belief. We will believe that the power of Love and forgiveness will help us overcome our addiction to emotional pain, anger, and unforgiving bitterness toward God and toward those who have wronged us. We will be open to taking action to repair broken relationships. We will be willing to listen and learn. We will stop relating to people from a hurt and offended broken heart, and start relating to them from a place of compassion—knowing how deeply we are loved and cherished by the living God who has forgiven us as we forgive others.</p>
<p><strong>If we believe both—that we are sons and daughters of God AND that we are helpless and addicted to emotional pain, anger, and unforgiving bitterness—then we are double-minded, unstable in all our ways.<br />
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Ask God for the wisdom to be single-minded and to fully believe in his outrageous love for you, and who he says you are. Keep asking until you finally believe his words. Then Do what you Believe.</p>
<p>James 1:5 The MESSAGE version &#8220;If you don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You&#8217;ll get his help, and won&#8217;t be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought. People who &#8216;worry their prayers&#8217; are like the wind-whipped waves. Don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re going to get anything from the Master that way, adrift at sea, keeping all your options open.</p>
<p>James 1:22-25 NIV &#8220;Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it—he will be blessed in what he does.</p>
<p>James 1:5 NIV &#8220;If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord, he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.&#8221;
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		<title>Jesus is the Only Way. There is No Other Way to the Father and Eternal Life.</title>
		<link>http://gardenministries.org/2009/05/21/jesus-is-the-only-way-there-is-no-other-way-to-the-father-and-eternal-life/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[Commentary by Janet Weaver Smith © 2009
Scriptures NIV:  Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society

Why People Don&#8217;t Believe in Jesus 
The reason people hold to other named beliefs (Atheism, Buddhism, Islamic-Muslim, Hinduism, etc.) and place their deity&#8217;s or their intellectual conclusions on the same level of, or above the eternal achievement of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Commentary by Janet Weaver Smith © 2009<br />
Scriptures NIV:  Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society<br />
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Why People Don&#8217;t Believe in Jesus </strong><br />
The reason people hold to other named beliefs (Atheism, Buddhism, Islamic-Muslim, Hinduism, etc.) and place their deity&#8217;s or their intellectual conclusions on the same level of, or above the eternal achievement of Jesus, is because those same people have no comprehension of what Jesus did for them or who Jesus is, namely, the Divine Son of God and the Son of Man. In his humanity, Jesus lived out the divine nature of God perfectly—even when faced with every temptation ever offered to mankind, and perfectly when under the duress of unimaginable torture and unjust human meanness during his scourging and crucifixion, and in perfect trust in his Father&#8217;s love while suffering the horrific torment of hell itself.</p>
<p>People can read and read and read and never understand until they ask the Holy Spirit for an understanding of who Jesus is. Because this understanding transcends natural human comprehension, the inspiration must come from God himself, by his Spirit. So if a person wants to understand God&#8217;s love for them and they open the door of their heart to the possibility that Jesus is who he says he is, they simply need to ask the Holy Spirit for an understanding of who Jesus is and the price of love that he paid to gain their eternal salvation. If people understand who Jesus is and the price he paid to save them because he loves them, they will believe in him.</p>
<p>In order to believe in Jesus, we must be given divine understanding that he is the Son of God and that he loves us like we couldn&#8217;t have ever imagined without divine understanding. And knowing how incredibly profound his love for us is helps us trust that what he says is true. When people understand the price that only Jesus could and did pay for them, they would naturally give him the place of exclusive honor in their hearts and everyday actions. They would gladly call Jesus their &#8220;Savior&#8221; and &#8220;Lord.&#8221; They would also accept that the hardcopy of eyewitness accounts, i.e., the Bible, is true and all that Jesus said about himself in the Bible is true.</p>
<p>When we finally understand the incredible price of love that only Jesus could and did pay for us as the Divine Son of God, we would never consider putting anyone in the same sentence, let alone the same galaxy of comparison to Jesus. He truly is the Name above ALL names. Only Jesus could and DID pay the price described in Philippians 2:5-11 which says this: &#8220;5 Your attitude should be the same as that of <strong>Christ Jesus:  6 Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be grasped, 7 but made himself nothing, taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself and became obedient to death—even death on a cross! 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Jesus is the Only Way to the Father: John 14:5-10</strong><br />
John 14:5 Thomas said to him, &#8220;Lord, we don&#8217;t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?&#8221;</p>
<p>6 <strong>Jesus answered, &#8220;I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. 7 If you really knew me, you would know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>8 Philip said, &#8220;Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.&#8221;</p>
<p>9 Jesus answered: &#8220;Don&#8217;t you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, &#8216;Show us the Father&#8217;? 10 <strong>Don&#8217;t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me</strong>? The words I say to you are not just my own. Rather, <strong>it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Isaiah 43:10-13</strong><br />
&#8220;You are my witnesses,&#8221; declares the Lord, &#8220;and my servant whom I have chosen, so that you may know and believe me and understand that I am he. <strong>Before me no god was formed, nor will there be one after me. I, even I, am the LORD, and apart from me there is no savior</strong>. I have revealed and saved and proclaimed&#8211; I, and not some foreign god among you. You are my witnesses,&#8221; declares the Lord, &#8220;that I am God. Yes, and from ancient days I am he. No one can deliver out of my hand. When I act, who can reverse it?&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Believing in Jesus Saves Us from Eternal Death and Gives Us Eternal Life: John 3:16-18</strong><br />
16 &#8220;For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God&#8217;s one and only Son.</p>
<p><strong>Why Jesus is Qualified to be Called the &#8220;Only Way&#8221;: Philippians 2:5-11  </strong><br />
The three things that qualify Jesus to be the only way to eternal life with the Father are because:</p>
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<li>Jesus is the Son of God (John 3:16).</li>
<li>Jesus paid the extreme price of love that was necessary to save us (Philippians 2:5-11).</li>
<li>Jesus is the only one who could, would, and did pay the necessary price (Philippians 2:5-11).</li>
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<p>Philippians 2:5-11 describes in detail the outstanding accomplishment of Jesus and confirms that Jesus is the only one qualified to be called by the names of Savior and Lord. Furthermore, the Father whom Jesus exemplified, backed up everything that Jesus did and endorsed every word that Jesus said about himself, said about the Father, and said about the Holy Spirit. 2 Peter 1:17 For he received honor and glory from God the Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, &#8220;This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased.&#8221; Mark 9:7 Then a cloud appeared and enveloped them, and a voice came from the cloud: &#8220;This is my Son, whom I love. Listen to him!&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>The Validity of Jesus&#8217; Testimony: John 8:12 - 59</strong><br />
People who believe in Jesus do not have to prove that he is God. Indeed we cannot make people believe something they cannot comprehend. Beyond our own experiential testimony of knowing and understanding the truth about who Jesus is, we cannot prove that what Jesus said about himself, about his Father, and about the Holy Spirit is true either. It is God&#8217;s responsibility to prove himself as the Way, the Truth, and the Life. Those who believe in Jesus can simply point people to the Bible to read about what Jesus said about himself there, pray with or for them, and let God do the work of proving himself.</p>
<p><strong>If we don&#8217;t open our hearts to receive the divine inspiration of the Holy Spirit, we cannot blame God for not answering us when we ask to understand his love and how he expresses it through the divine nature of Jesus. We must blame ourselves for not being open to the divine inspiration of the Holy Spirit and the change of mindset and lifestyle that may occur make once we encounter and understand the love of God.</strong></p>
<p>In the following scripture (John 8:12-59), you can listen in on a heated conversation between Jesus and some determined-to-be-proven-right intellectuals and religious leaders. Their motive in engaging Jesus in a Q&#038;A conversation was not to understand his answers but to invalidate his spiritual authority and to make him fit into their system of rules, regulations, and beliefs. Unless the people asking the questions were open to understanding what Jesus was actually saying, it was impossible for them to comprehend his answers. And so it is with us.<br />
John 8:12 When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, &#8220;I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.&#8221;</p>
<p>13 The Pharisees challenged him, &#8220;Here you are, appearing as your own witness; your testimony is not valid.&#8221;</p>
<p>14 Jesus answered, &#8220;Even if I testify on my own behalf, my testimony is valid, for I know where I came from and where I am going. But you have no idea where I come from or where I am going. 15 You judge by human standards; I pass judgment on no one. 16 But if I do judge, my decisions are right, because I am not alone. I stand with the Father, who sent me. 17 In your own Law it is written that the testimony of two men is valid. 18I am one who testifies for myself; my other witness is the Father, who sent me.&#8221;</p>
<p>19 Then they asked him, &#8220;Where is your father?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;You do not know me or my Father,&#8221; Jesus replied. &#8220;If you knew me, you would know my Father also.&#8221; 20 He spoke these words while teaching in the temple area near the place where the offerings were put. Yet no one seized him, because his time had not yet come.</p>
<p>21 Once more Jesus said to them, &#8220;I am going away, and you will look for me, and you will die in your sin. Where I go, you cannot come.&#8221;</p>
<p>22 This made the Jews ask, &#8220;Will he kill himself? Is that why he says, &#8216;Where I go, you cannot come&#8217;?&#8221;</p>
<p>23 But he continued, &#8220;You are from below; I am from above. You are of this world; I am not of this world. 24 I told you that you would die in your sins; if you do not believe that I am the one I claim to be,[a] you will indeed die in your sins.&#8221;</p>
<p>25 &#8220;Who are you?&#8221; they asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Just what I have been claiming all along,&#8221; Jesus replied. 26 &#8220;I have much to say in judgment of you. But he who sent me is reliable, and what I have heard from him I tell the world.&#8221;</p>
<p>27 They did not understand that he was telling them about his Father. 28 So Jesus said, &#8220;When you have lifted up the Son of Man, then you will know that I am the one I claim to be and that I do nothing on my own but speak just what the Father has taught me. 29 The one who sent me is with me; he has not left me alone, for I always do what pleases him.&#8221; 30 Even as he spoke, many put their faith in him.</p>
<p>31 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, &#8220;If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.&#8221;</p>
<p>33 They answered him, &#8220;We are Abraham&#8217;s descendants and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?&#8221;</p>
<p>34 Jesus replied, &#8220;I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35 Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37 I know you are Abraham&#8217;s descendants. Yet you are ready to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38 I am telling you what I have seen in the Father&#8217;s presence, and you do what you have heard from your father.&#8221;</p>
<p>39 &#8220;Abraham is our father,&#8221; they answered.</p>
<p>&#8220;If you were Abraham&#8217;s children,&#8221; said Jesus, &#8220;then you would do the things Abraham did. 40 As it is, you are determined to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41 You are doing the things your own father does.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We are not illegitimate children,&#8221; they protested. &#8220;The only Father we have is God himself.&#8221;</p>
<p>42 Jesus said to them, &#8220;If God were your Father, you would love me, for I came from God and now am here. I have not come on my own; but he sent me. 43 Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44 You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father&#8217;s desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45 Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46 Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don&#8217;t you believe me? 47 He who belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God.&#8221;</p>
<p>48 The Jews answered him, &#8220;Aren&#8217;t we right in saying that you are a Samaritan and demon-possessed?&#8221;</p>
<p>49 &#8220;I am not possessed by a demon,&#8221; said Jesus, &#8220;but I honor my Father and you dishonor me. 50 I am not seeking glory for myself; but there is one who seeks it, and he is the judge. 51  tell you the truth, if anyone keeps my word, he will never see death.&#8221;</p>
<p>52 At this the Jews exclaimed, &#8220;Now we know that you are demon-possessed! Abraham died and so did the prophets, yet you say that if anyone keeps your word, he will never taste death. 53 Are you greater than our father Abraham? He died, and so did the prophets. Who do you think you are?&#8221;</p>
<p>54 Jesus replied, &#8220;If I glorify myself, my glory means nothing. My Father, whom you claim as your God, is the one who glorifies me. 55 Though you do not know him, I know him. If I said I did not, I would be a liar like you, but I do know him and keep his word. 56 Your father Abraham rejoiced at the thought of seeing my day; he saw it and was glad.&#8221;</p>
<p>57 &#8220;You are not yet fifty years old,&#8221; the Jews said to him, &#8220;and you have seen Abraham!&#8221;</p>
<p>58 &#8220;I tell you the truth,&#8221; Jesus answered, &#8220;before Abraham was born, I am!&#8221; 59 At this, they picked up stones to stone him, but Jesus hid himself, slipping away from the temple grounds.</p>
<p><strong> </strong><strong /><strong /><strong>WATCH THIS 8-MINUTE VIDEO: </strong><a title="Jesus Loves Us Outrageously" target="_blank" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0pxBay2r2SI"><strong>Jesus Loves Us Outrageously, Music by Jonathon David Helser and Words by Graham Cooke</strong><br />
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By Shawna K. 1-11-2009

This is the Dance
This is the Dance
This is the Dance
This is the Dance of the Father
The Holy Spirit is the Dance of the Father.
Take all the love you have ever felt and experienced-as a father, mother, son, daughter, lover, sister or brother-and multiply it into infinity, [...]]]></description>
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</strong>By Shawna K. 1-11-2009<strong><br />
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<p><strong />This is the Dance<br />
This is the Dance<br />
This is the Dance<br />
This is the Dance of the Father<br />
The Holy Spirit is the Dance of the Father.</p>
<p>Take all the love you have ever felt and experienced-as a father, mother, son, daughter, lover, sister or brother-and multiply it into infinity, now set it to music and DANCE. THAT is the Holy Spirit. The Dance of the Father.</p>
<p>He is about to release the Holy Spirit in a Dance that will consume you. The Dance is tribal, exotic, immaculate. The Father longs for you to Dance before him. The Remnant will DANCE! We wonder if we will be a part of the remnant?</p>
<p>We try to live according to the Father’s will today, but when the Remnant is torn to shreds, will we be able to remain standing? If you want to know, answer this: Will you dance? Because the Remnant WILL DANCE! Will you put aside the ego of your humanity? Will you make yourself a fool in the eyes of those around you? He is about to set this Dance upon your feet, but you have to CHOOSE, as a mortal woman or man to receive the DANCE He wants to give you. He hopes so, because it will be so SPECTACULAR!</p>
<p>The DANCE is the penultimate worship in the Father’s Eyes. He is waiting for it. The anticipation is mounting. The Angels and the Inhabitants of Heaven are preparing. The Excitement is palpable as they know that The Father is about to pour out the DANCE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT. The Song and Dance of the Remnant will rise and the Glory of the Lord will fall and the collision will be a CATACLSYMIC REACTION, the magnitude of which the world has never seen, or could even have imagined.</p>
<p>Now is the time, do not delay. Today is the day to begin breaking the bonds of your human ego and societal expectations and go against the grain. You do not want to miss a single colossal moment of the Dance because you weren’t prepared.</p>
<p>Start Dancing now&#8211;Today!<br />
He wants to know.<br />
He wants to Know!<br />
Will you DANCE with HIM?</p>
<p><strong> Watch this video exerpt from a Kevin Prosch worship set for an audio/visual sample of this word</strong>: <a title="Kevin Prosh Tribal Worship Set" target="_blank" href="http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&#038;videoid=8849069">http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?<br />
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What is a Creative Connection?
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By Janet Weaver Smith - Copyright 2008 – www.gardenministries.org</p>
<p><strong>What is a Creative Connection?</strong></p>
<p>A relationship that experiences a &#8220;creative connection&#8221; is when two or more people connect and experience a deep soul link that feels explosive. And I mean joyfully explosive. The relationship experiences such cohesion that sometimes you might even feel like &#8220;you&#8217;re in each other&#8217;s head.&#8221; Without words, you &#8220;just get&#8221; each other in ways that transcend what you&#8217;re used to. Furthermore, the emotional connection makes you feel &#8220;so alive&#8221; that the powerful feelings compel you to explore and discover the creative depths and heights beyond what you might normally feel compelled to discover with other relationships. Because of the emotional &#8220;high&#8221; some people feel when a creative connection occurs, to protect the integrity of this relationship and our other relationships, it is important to understand what a creative connection is and what it is not.</p>
<p><strong>What is the Purpose of a Creative Connection?</strong></p>
<p>The purpose of a creative connection is usually for a specific time and often results in a more profound creative product or spiritual success than if done alone, for example: actors often experience this when doing a movie together, artist&#8217;s often experience this when creating art together, and the same for musicians and writers. You may have even heard the term, &#8220;my work spouse.&#8221; In ministry circles, pastors, worship leaders, and intercessory prayer people often encounter or experience this. The feelings are deep because the people connecting run &#8220;deep.&#8221; If the relationship is kept non-romantic, non-physical, and non-sexual by maintaining a &#8220;wild&#8221; and &#8220;clean&#8221; balance, this relationship can be a highly productive with tremendous payoff for both, or all people involved.</p>
<p><strong>How Do We Maintain a Wild and Clean Balance When It Feels So Compelling? </strong></p>
<p>When a creative connection comes our way, it often reveals where there are &#8220;holes&#8221; in our hearts that God needs to fill. And because the emotions evoked by this relationship run so deep, we may be tempted to misinterpret the powerful experience as being the answer to the hole in our hearts and is a &#8220;love that leads to marriage or intimate permanency of some kind.&#8221; Because it feels so good (and we all like feeling good), we are tempted to &#8220;get ahead of God&#8221; and go too fast in an attempt to capture and over-define the relationship too soon.</p>
<p><strong>How Do We &#8220;Get Ahead of God&#8221; and Miss the Mark?</strong></p>
<p>When we &#8220;get ahead of God,&#8221; we become unable to hear what God is saying about the relationship. Because we are created to enjoy excitement and to be fascinated with God, we may transfer this need to the relationship and get emotionally addicted to the thrill of the connection. Because of this emotional addiction, we close ourselves off from anything that may stop it and we only want God to approve and say what we want to hear about the relationship so we can maintain the thrill. Whether we realize it or not, by getting ahead of God, we close ourselves off from hearing what God says about the relationship, especially if it His way contradicts what we have set our hearts on getting our way. &#8220;Our way&#8221; meaning that we don&#8217;t want to risk hearing a &#8220;no&#8221; so we do everything we can to avoid hearing what we don&#8217;t want to hear. Self and soul rise up and block out Spirit.</p>
<p><strong>Addiction to the Emotional Highs Will Cost the Relationship</strong></p>
<p>The truth is, when a relationship is intended for a creative connection but not for romance and marriage, by making it romantic and permanent, we end up killing the precious essence and the goodness the relationship was intended to give us because we indulged it for Self at the cost of Spirit. We coveted the &#8220;goods&#8221; of the relationship to fill the holes in our hearts and laid our own hand to filling them instead of waiting for God&#8217;s divine answer. In every relationship that I have seen this connection misinterpreted and indulged in beyond its intended and/or moral scope, the relationship either suffered great loss or, more often than not, was completely lost.</p>
<p><strong>Hold On to Your Heart Until God Says to &#8220;Go There&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>If you have experienced a &#8220;creative connection,&#8221; and until God releases a clear and undeniable &#8220;yes&#8221; to anything romantic and &#8220;unto marriage or engagement,&#8221; guard your heart and body from going there.  Do not engage the relationship physically, sexually, or with sensual interactions and don&#8217;t neglect your other relationships. Due to the emotional pull of the connection, and in order to maintain solid boundaries, you will most likely need the support and input of people whom you trust and whom you know to be morally grounded in the love and truth of God&#8217;s Word. It is so important to stay connected in this way as you navigate the turbulent waters of your heart and learn where the holes in your heart are that increase your vulnerability to crossing relationship lines.</p>
<p><strong>Waiting is Part of the Process</strong></p>
<p>Here is a list of things to do while you wait for God to release His &#8220;yes&#8221; or &#8220;no&#8221; to anything more:</p>
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<li>Focus on the creative purposes that the connection occurred for, i.e. the art, the idea generation, the warfare, the music, etc.</li>
<li>Engage trusted authority figures in your life and submit the parameters of the relationship to these sources. Sources such as the Word of God [Bible], The Holy Spirit, the body of Christ, and Mentor/Pastor-types. Their wisdom will protect you long-term and help stabilize you from hurtful decisions fueled by soaring emotions.</li>
<li>Until you have gained a solid witness to advancing your relationship to romantic permanency, stay non-physical and non-sexual/sensual indefinitely and focus on the product that your &#8220;creative connection&#8221; has been purposed for.</li>
<li>And by all means, with clear boundaries in place, enjoy the great friendship and creative camaraderie. It is a gift.</li>
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<p><strong>What if I&#8217;m Married or Engaged and I Experience a Creative Connection With Someone Else?</strong></p>
<p>If you have experienced a creative connection-type friendship are married or engaged to someone else, the creatively-connecting friendship will thrive if the integrity of your marriage or engagement remains uncompromised. When creative connections are managed well, your marriage or engagement relationship will be enriched because most creative people are happiest when their center is active and fruitful. If your marriage or engagement becomes threatened by the creative connection, it is important to talk about this with your life partner and discover what has created the threat and to deal with that immediately through prayer and counsel. When our life partner witnesses the depth of the relationship with someone else, they may understandably need assurances that you hold your marriage as sacred and will not let it be violated by other relationships. If your marriage suffers beyond consoling words and actions, do the work to sort it all out with trusted and objective sources—like a counselor or Pastor/Mentor-type. And if the person you are creatively connecting with objects to you getting this kind of help, this is a warning flag to you. A true friend would want you to feel confident and secure in all your close relationships—especially those of a romantic and covenanted nature.</p>
<p>If the creative connection relationship is pulling you away from your covenant relationship and the person you are connecting with does not honor and support the integrity and vitality of your marriage or engagement, then you are on dangerous ground. Without outside help, you may be tempted to misinterpret a creative connection relationship and use it to break faith with your covenant relationship. This is the beginning of a delusion that could lead to adultery and has very painful consequences when trespassed upon. The consequences come after the whirl of the emotion subsides, a whirl which may last anywhere from 1 year to 7 years. When the consequences of breaking a covenant relationship finally do hit, they hit hard and often times create yet another hole in your heart that only God can heal. A hole of fear and mistrust. And the holes in our heart, created by fear and mistrust, are only filled by Jesus whose &#8220;perfect love drives out fear.&#8221; (I John 4:18)</p>
<p><strong>So What Do I Do With The Holes in My Heart?</strong></p>
<p>When holes in our heart get exposed, and we feel tempted to look to a person to fill them, we are to turn to Jesus instead. Take that need or desire directly to Jesus and in focused communion with Him, ask Him to heal your heart and fill the hole with His love. Ask Him to correct misperceptions you may have about His love for you. Keep asking Him until you get the answers too. Keep going to Him in intimate communion and spend time worshipping and adoring Him as you ask Him to heal you. The holes in our heart are meant for Him to fill in the ways He knows best. He may be calling a person to come alongside of you to bring this and He may use other means. The point is, we must wait on God and not get ahead of him with our own ideas and ways. You may be in the season of strengthening your walk with Jesus as the intimate Lord and King of your life and still need to grow deep roots in your individual and unique identity in Him.</p>
<p><strong>Commune with Your Bridegroom—Jesus and Love the Lord your God with All Your Heart</strong></p>
<p>Balance the time you spend in all of your relationships and don&#8217;t neglect your Jesus-face-time.<br />
More than ever, spend quality time with the Answer to all of your heart longings—Jesus. Seek His beautiful face and soak in His words of love for you. Let Him talk to you as only He can. Let Him minister to the wounds and fill the holes in your heart. Direct your painful yearnings and longings to Him and lay the responsibility to fulfill them on His doorstep. Quality time worshipping and hanging out with Jesus is always helpful in processing matters of the heart. Only Jesus knows how to fill the holes in our heart. But we must go to Him and ask Him to tend to our wounds and show us His way through to wholeness. See Isaiah 61:1/Luke 4:18-21.<br />
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Be a Great Life Partner and a Great Friend to Creatively Connect With</strong></p>
<p>By drinking everyday from the well of our spiritual romance with Jesus, knowing who we are to Him and who we are because of Him will make us great life partner&#8217;s and great friends to creatively connect with.</p>
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On Relationships: CREATIVE CONNECTIONS – What They Are and What They Are Not<br />
By Janet Weaver Smith - Copyright 2008 – www.gardenministries.org
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